3 Lessons For Your Book Journey — From Stevie Nicks

A few weeks ago, I had a chance to see Stevie Nicks on tour. 

Before the show, I would have said that I was a casual fan. I like her songs, but I wouldn’t have said I was a hardcore Stevie fan, or even a mega Fleetwood Mac fan.

Until after that show.

In 90 minutes, Stevie did three things that completely won me over in the way that great artists — musicians, writers, creators, and yes authors — can. 

And these three things, if you choose to master them, will help you achieve your goal of writing and publishing a bestselling book.

1. Stay connected with what inspires you.
   In 2022, Stevie told The New Yorker that “I don’t think that any real serious songwriter is ever going to have a problem staying connected to the dream world that allows us to write songs.” There’s a reason that you want to get your book out in the world — and the people I’ve seen become successful authors stay connected to that reason no matter how many years it takes. Stevie has been a musician for decades — and stays connected to the love she has for writing, performing, and sharing her poetry with fans.

2. Balance the hits with what’s important to you.
   At the show I attended, Stevie performed less popular songs that she loved. The crowd didn’t applaud as much or scream every lyric the way they did for “Dreams” or “Gypsy” but I can honestly say that I don’t think Stevie gave a fuck, and I think that’s awesome. When creating content, follow what I’m calling the “Stevie Rule” — give people the advice they want and what they need. (Which isn’t the same thing.)

3. Honor your helpers.
   Stevie gave two tributes in the show I attended, to fellow Fleetwood Mac member Christine McVie and to Tom Petty — both close personal friends. In addition to singing their songs, she explained what each of these people meant to her personally and professionally. Both publishing and entrepreneurship are small worlds, meaning that who you thank — and don’t — matters. Be kind, thoughtful, and reciprocal.

And last but not least — know that your perspective may change. 

Up until I saw Stevie perform live, I never really understood the song “Landslide.” But when I heard it that night, I instantly understood its meaning at this point in my life and now it’s a favorite song on my playlist for 2023. 

Our perspective changes as our journey changes — simple as that.